THE ONLY MAN WHO CAN HELP
_For your Maker is your Husband, The Lord of hosts is His name; and your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel; He is called The God of the whole earth Isaiah 54:5_
Many times we fail to go to the Father who can help, and instead we run straight into the arms of someone who cannot help. *Understand that you must not marry someone thinking he can save you*. We men are heirs, together with our wives, of the grace of life. We are both eligible for inheritance. We do not give the inheritance. We need it just like our wives do.
*Don’t be fooled into looking to the arms of flesh for healings that come only from the arms of God. If you choose to marry, don’t marry out of what you need. Marry out of the abundance of what you have to offer. When two people enter into a relationship for what they can receive, they are both disappointed 😞*
No man, no matter how wonderful, can wipe all tears from your eyes. Your life will bring many tears. They are unavoidable. They are a part of existence. Pleasure and pain, sunshine and rain are all intermingled with day-to-day bruises and brokenness that neither your husband nor your natural father can heal. I want you to know where to go when life is too much.
It is honourable to be married if that is your choice. Just understand that whoever God sends into your life will be limited and human. He will give a measure of comfort, but real wholeness comes from God alone.*There are some areas in your life that God has reserved for Himself alone. He will heal them and fill them. No one else can.*
I recommend Him because He has been my trusted Friend and Confidant. He has never betrayed me nor divulged my secrets. He is the Strong, Silent Type. He knows when to keep still. When nights are cold and days are dreary, He is a Comfort and a Peace. He is to the soul what hot tea is to the body. He strengthens and warms the chill of life for those who will trust Him. He is the Provision for the problem and the Solution to the challenges that life will surely present.
You need not impress Him. He already knows who you are. He has searched you and known you (see Psalms 139:1). There is no need to try to project an image. He has seen you in the raw. He has examined your thoughts and known your imaginations. You feel somewhat vulnerable, realizing that whatever you are trying to discuss with Him, He already knows. But the healing balm flows into into the bleeding places of life when you realize that this omniscient knowledge of you has not caused Him to forsake you. He is still there. What a love! 💕